Day 301/365

Hey Readers!


So here is the story…

 I have learned that if I am not sure of what I want in life, I will never know who I want in life or who is compatible with me. 

The person I am currently dating is so lovable, we have many dates which includes breakfast and lunch dates all the time, where we eat (duh), read and gossip (LOL)

I am totally in love with them, no matter what… I know for sure they will love me for me, they understand my shift in moods, they understand that I am not always sunshine and rainbows; but also, I can be hurricane Kris on other days. They understand my needs and wants, they know I have my times when I want to be consumed in the company of others chatting a way and there are times when I just need time to be alone, to reflect on myself, my journey, how far I have came (WHAT?….let us just continue …) and how far I am going. 

The love of my life knows what I love to eat because they cook for me all the time, they know what music I like because they play it my kind of music all the time, they understand that I love to be cuddled and I love to be left alone, they understand that I am different and they have to understand that I love my space.

Daily we make plans for the future on how we are going to continue in believing, having faith and patience that one day we will conquer the world, build a future because… as I have said many times before in many of my blogs prior, this is not for the now, this is for the LEGACY that will be left behind! 💪🏿


With that being said, I am  totally a single 20-something year old dating herself, I strongly believe in taking care of  my self first and then the entire universe will align with me. So I remain focused knowing that I will never settle for just any man, he has to be pretty awesome.

Hi baby I am already rooting for you!

I will be with someone who is goal driven, hardworking, possess a growth mindset, believe in self-love, self-care and  he is able overcome his obstacles by having positive thoughts,  faith in himself and kindness in his heart. 



I am a different kind of  woman. With me you have to just know me,understand certain things, be patient and learn who I am as a person. 


I have a very good friend that said I am not a trial and error type of girl, for someone to be able to date me they have to know exactly what they are doing……. when he said that I wondered to myself….


I then said to him “Maybe I need to ease up a bit and not let certain things get to me”🤷🏿‍♀️, but then he  advise me with a “NAH” and continued to let me know that I should never do that because that is how a f*ck nigga 🤬 will enter my life and make everything worst. 

I easily said

“Point taken” 🙃

I know I would never settle, I would rather be alone.

I also know I will find my future husband because I have an abundance of love in my heart ready to be shared with him and our children. 💕💫

But in the meantime , I am just building myself, dating myself and loving myself (hehe, I did it again).  As a young millennial woman I have to ensure I know exactly what I want in life and there is no better way in doing that than knowing who I am inside-out before getting to know someone inside out😏, getting to love my flaws before I am able to love someone else’s flaws, understanding my moods before I am able to understand someone else’s moods, understanding my coping mechanism for different reasons before…..

You get the point, right?

and overall just being comfortable in my OWN SKIN! 

My formula is simple: Patience, Faith, Belief and an abundance of Self Love & Care 

P.S persons who say things like:

“I know my significant other more than I know myself”

I will never understand that feeling, I am sorry 🤷🏿‍♀️ 

However I may say:

” I am learning so much about my significant other, almost as much as I know myself”

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Self Assurance Wins

Day 298/ 365

Hi Guys! 👋🏿 

I am already thanking you for clicking on to my blog! 

Here goes! 😝

Thoughts of a 20 Something year old! ❤️💋

I have discovered that when someone does not have self assurance or they believe they lack something and is just unsure of themselves in certain aspects…. 

They act different from those of a winning mindset.

People like that will try to dampen your  journey and spirit. Hoping that you will stop shining in all your wonderful glory while basking in your happiness that you have brought on yourself. They will try to crush your soul and they would not like it when opportunities come your way


Not everyone is for you….🤷🏿‍♀️

Matter of fact, just a few are for you and many are against you!

There are persons that you think are empowering, you think are leaders, you think they would love to see others grow and flourish but then you they will find ways to stop your shine due to their own insecurities.

I send persons like that my blessings.🙂💋

Dash out di blessings pon dem-

I pray I never have that kind of mindset and I thank God for showing me those persons in the world. I claim and pray that my self assurance will remain in high hopes, glory  and continue to grow no matter what!


I  understand that the sky is the limit and it is big enough for everyone to explore and soar.

Please Understand that too.

Hun. 🤗💋




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2AM Thoughts of a 20-Something Year Old


2AM Thoughts of a 20-Something Year Old.


Honestly I am not sure what influenced me to pick up this laptop to blog but I guess I felt inspired and plus I am currently listening to Beres Hammond Album- Never Ending. He inspires me, one day I would love to meet the man! 

Anyways moving on…

Yesterday I was asked by two different persons ” How do I get time to….” and I have heard this question many times and it is usually followed by gym, run, experience new places, school, work, blog, posts pictures and videos, etc

So lets get to that….

First of all I am a millennial, so sleep is just a concept, however let me tell you the disadvantage of me going and going and going and not getting sufficient rest… my body eventually starts to shake me up, most times with a headache  indicating to me that it needs rest and if my body had a voice it would say


I am really poor at time management, but I tell myself that I am good and that is also the answer I give to such questions  and in telling myself that  I am good at Time Management, I believe I am getting better….

Why is this? 

I am a firm believer in claiming what I want in life and telling myself sweet and positive things I eventually believe it and once I believe something it is easier for me to perform in such manner. I know it is not as simple and easy as it sounds but please just believe me when I say if you do the same it will work out in your favour.

As you wake in the mornings before checking messages and social media  tell yourself: 

” Today is going to be a good day”

“I am calm and confident”

” I will jump any obstacles in my way”

“I will win”

How this work is the power of your mindset, the power of affirmations, the power of your thoughts and what you believe in….knowing that you want success and a great future is enough to get you started.


I promise you, I have no doubt… if you tell yourself “I AM…..and I CAN”…..there is no force nor energy that can come between you and your goals. Telling yourself wonderful and positive words and claiming what you want from the universe WILL HELP! 😌

Another important factor is showing gratitude and reminding yourself that you are blessed, enjoy this moment in life, own it and live it. Thanking God and the universe for your everything you have.

I know not everyone believes in a God  and I respect that. However for my life God has glorified it in a number of ways, he keeps working in ways I can’t explain but just knowing when great things occur it was God. There were many times I had no idea of a particular outcome… “Will it be in my favour ? or not?” I would ask myself and the words that easily flows out of my mouth are:

” God will find a way, he did not bring me this far to leave me”

My faith in God is strong like my legs (LOL), just like how I work my legs in the gym for them to get stronger, I also work my faith, by just continuing to have faith after faith after faith and reminding myself that there is a season for everything which always leads me to say, especially when things don’t work out as planned:

“God’s timing, not mine”

Just start telling yourself and feeding your mind wonderful things!


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I just want to thank everyone in advance who believes in me and  my success that is about to come my way!

I declare it! 💫❤️

Stay blessed and have a great October! 

Thanks for my nails Lexi!😘 




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